You have friends that are honest guys. They may not say anything, but they treat you with respect.
Why Are Honest Guys Like That?
It’s because they have an inherent honesty in them. If you ask them a question, and they give you the straight answer, you can be sure they really do love you. And they also have a good balance of the wild side with the tame. Do you think that’s a coincidence?
That’s a good point, but does that mean you should follow this guy around all the time and never really take the relationship seriously? No. That’s just being a wimpy guy. That doesn’t make you an honest guy either.
Here’s what I’m talking about. How many times have you been out with a hot girl, and the guy you’re with acts like he has to take her to dinner? Or how many times have you been out with a nice guy, and he starts kissing other girls? Those things are evidence that he isn’t as hung up on you as you are on him. That’s a guy who’s not in love with you yet. He’s not ready to declare his undying love for you.
But those things don’t happen often. If you are with a guy like that, don’t get too upset. You’ll feel better about yourself in time. And if you’re unhappy with the direction your relationship is taking, you have the power to change it. You have the power to be more honest with yourself.
So What Does ‘being Honest’ Mean Exactly?
It means you tell yourself the truth even when it hurts. For instance, if you think your guy is treating you unfairly, you should tell yourself that. Or if you feel that you’ve been treated dishonestly, you should voice your opinion – even if it’s unpleasant.
Honesty also means being yourself. This may sound simple, but it’s not. Honesty means doing what you want to do, not what you feel like doing. Many guys will talk to you about their problems without even asking if you’d heard it before. But that doesn’t mean they’re really trying to solve any problems for you. They’re just trying to get your attention – and there’s no way to know whether you even heard them talk to you before or not.
Meditation Can Help With Honesty
Meditation can help with honesty because it forces men to be more honest with themselves. When you meditate, you become aware of exactly how you act toward others. Being honest guys can change all that. When you’re serious about being honest guys, you’ll notice that other people are much friendlier around you. Honesty will make people more honest too, so that’s another benefit of this technique.
In short, a guy who is being honest with you is a guy who is more reliable. A guy who is being honest with you also means he’s mature and sensible and trustworthy. He is someone who doesn’t hold back his most honest opinions. This is why women tend to fall for honest guys. They recognize their qualities and their good traits, and that makes them much more likely to want to be with an honest guy.